an italian birthday celebration: 48 hours in florence

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For a full list of what to eat, where to stay, and things to do in Florence based on our experience, scroll to the bottom of this post.

As you may have already gathered if you follow me on Instagram, we spent my 30th birthday celebrating in Italy! My mom flew into Germany on the Wednesday before I said goodbye to my 20s, and we flew to Florence on Thursday. I have to admit I've been terrible at taking photos on our most recent trips - I've been carrying Miles in the Ergo, and he's usually trying to rip the camera from my hands or screaming about it blocking his view.

Since I took Josh to drive a Ferrari for his 30th birthday a few years ago and we're living in Europe for mine, he knew we had to do something extraordinary. I let it be known basically as soon as we moved here that I wanted to celebrate in Italy, but I pretty much left the choice of city up to him. Having been to Rome, Venice, and Florence back in college, the latter was the one that stood out most in his memory, so that's where we went! And I must admit, a great choice it was... Florence is right up there with Amsterdam as my favorite city in Europe.

The shopping! The history! The food! Oh.my.gosh.the.food. AMAZING.

By the time our flight landed on Thursday and we got settled into our airbnb, it was getting pretty late. We decided to head over to the upstairs of Mercato Centrale to get a quick dinner. Despite warnings that it was a more "touristy" spot, the food was incredible. I had a truffle pasta dish (which Miles, shockingly, LOVED - a refined palate!), my mom had pasta with fig and sausage, and Josh had a sausage and collard green pizza. And because when in Rome... errr, Florence... we capped it all off with cannoli.

The next day, we hit the ground running. We wandered around town to see some of the sights, stopped for gelato (duh!), picked up sandwiches for lunch at I Due Fratellini (on the recommendation of multiple friends), perused some art at the Uffizi Gallery (where Miles proceeded to have an EPIC meltdown to trump all meltdowns), bought a new leather jacket at Sabani, and finished the evening with a lovely dinner at Trattoria da Giorgio per the recommendation of our airbnb host.

All those things were awesome, but by far the highlight of the trip for me was the goings-on we had planned for Saturday. We booked this incredibly well-reviewed cooking class on Viator, left Miles with his Grandma for the day, and set off on a Tuscan adventure. 

It started with a little tour of the city with our excellent guide, Gloria, from Walkabout Florence, and our fellow students from Australia, Indonesia, and a fellow American family stationed in Italy. We stopped at produce stands, bakeries, and the huge market to pick up essentials for the feast we would be creating later that day...

Once we had everything we needed, everyone loaded into a couple of cabs to escape this city to the cutest little farmhouse where we met our instructors for the day. Chef Isaac is a Seattle-native who's been living and cooking in Italy for many years, and Carmella is the cutest Italian grandmotherly character. She barely speaks a word of English but had no reservations about singing, clapping, and chattering in Italian even though none of the students understood her.

The menu included bruschetta on fresh Tuscan bread, homemade pasta with ragu, pork loin with roasted potatoes, pizza from scratch and cooked in the outdoor brick oven (see me tossing the dough below... I look terrified!), gelato with aged balsamic, and tiramisu.

We concluded the afternoon of cooking with eating our finished products alongside free-flowing Chianti and this view...

Josh and I left with our hearts and bellies full, feeling refreshed and grateful for the experience. And we were super happy to meet back up with my mom and Miles who'd had a day of adventures themselves! We did some more shopping in the outdoor market for scarves (so many scarves and so cheap!), made one last stop for some more leather, and headed back to our apartment for some shuteye before flying out early Sunday morning.

I can truly say it was everything I hoped for and more, and I can't think of a better way to kick off my 30s! I absolutely fell in love with Florence, from the incredible food to the the beautiful city rich in history to the excellent wine and the Florentine people, who were so very friendly and just seem to love life.

If you'd like to check out some of the places we enjoyed in Florence, here's a complete list with a few additional details included:

where to stay in florence

airbnb is our favorite way to travel as a family, especially in Europe where hotel rooms tend to be tiny and often don't even have a mini fridge. You get to experience the city as a local, and it's usually cheaper than hotels, too! The great thing about Florence is that virtually anywhere you stay within the city is walking distance to everything you'd wanna do.

what to do in florence

A Tuscan cooking class: I can't recommend this one highly enough! On top of the actual class, we got a great little tour of the city, plus a full day's worth of meals. And let's not forget the stunning views from the farmhouse outside of the city. We had a great experience with Walkabout Florence (request Gloria as your guide!), which we booked through Viator

Shop for scarves and leather: Our favorite shop for leather items was Sabani. For scarves, we just bought at the outdoor market outside Mercato Centrale. Beware that you should go in ready to negotiate. We found that you could haggle on price at most places, especially if you're buying in bulk.

Escape indoors to the Uffizi Gallery: The building is gorgeous, and though we didn't enjoy it because of a certain toddler, they have a nice little cafe with a lovely view. Be sure to check out the works of daVinci and Michelangelo on display.

where to eat in florence

Mercato Centrale: Above the markets in the center of town is an epicurian dream - they've got everything from pizza and pasta to burgers and steaks to fish and charcuterie. And don't forget about the gelato and cannoli. We were warned that this place is a bit on the touristy side, and though that may be true, the food was still incredible. I'd recommend just one thing, except that everything we at was absolutely delicious. Bonus points that it's super kid-friendly, too, from the many options to the abundance of high chairs.

I Due Fratellini: This little, literal hole-in-the-wall sandwich shop was recommended to us by not one, but two friends who've each spent more than their fair share of time in Italy. Get a simple but tasty sandwich and a glass of wine for next to nothing, and enjoy it on the sidewalk. I thought Josh's was best, so I say order the panini with prosciutto crudo, caprino, and rucola - if you forget, it's the first one on their menu.

Trattoria da GiorgioThis one was recommended to us by our airbnb host, as it was less than two minutes up the street from our apartment. Away from the city center, you can guarantee it's not a tourist trap. The crowd seemed to be a mix of locals and visitors who had likely received a recommendation just like us. Not only was it family friendly, but the prices can't be beat - at dinner, its only 15€ for two courses, a side dish, bread, wine, and water. They have quite an extensive menu, as well.

happy birthday to me! thoughts on turning 30

I'm a person who loves birthdays and will celebrate the whole month long, but on the day I turned 27, I distinctly remember being truly sad. In the days leading up to January 14th that year, I felt an overwhelming sense of dread, and when the day finally arrived, I found myself wishing it away. Why? Because I suddenly realized how close I was to 30, and in my head, I had a long list of things that I had to have accomplished by that self-inflicted deadline. I had to have my life figured out by 30 - after all, I'd be a real adult by then (ha!). I look back at the feelings I experienced that year, and I can't help but laugh. 

I've now reached that milestone - the big 3-0 - and what I now realize is that I'll never have it all together. There'll always be more that I want to achieve and more adventures to be had. And my 20s were so very full - I learned who I was, found a new sense of confidence in who I am and learned to care less about what others think, discovered new interests, gained so many incredible friendships, and experienced more love than I can handle.

Here are a few of the big highlights from the past decade:

Got engaged and planned a wedding

Spent a summer studying abroad in Spain and travelled to Portugal and Morocco

Survived Erie winters and graduated from Penn State with degrees in Marketing and International Business

Married Josh in a  beautiful ceremony in Nashville... one of the best days of my life

Photo credit Eyeris Photography

Photo credit Eyeris Photography

Moved to North Carolina

Retired my 1995 Volvo and bought my first car

Brought home our first baby, Monty, a Scottish terrier

Got my first full-time, post-college job as the Marketing Director at a nonprofit agency

Made the scary leap of quitting that job to start and grow a thriving business

Bought our first home

Celebrated the weddings, babies, and new jobs of dear friends

Traveled lots of awesome places, including San Francisco for our fifth anniversary, Jamaica for a destination wedding, Vegas for work, Chicago, London, Paris, New York City, Amsterdam, and lots more!

Had some epic yearly reunions with my friends from college... so grateful for these friendships!

Moved to Germany

Became debt-free!

Got pregnant and welcomed into the world our baby boy, Miles... another best day of my life!

Also, not to be forgotten are all the really wonderful, memorable, and completely normal things that happened in my 20s... dinners with friends, movies on the couch with Josh, visits to and from family, Sunday brunch at Mary's Diner, hours spent rocking a tiny sleeping baby, late night omelets at The Breakfast Place in Erie, Starbucks dates, game nights, and so, so much more than I could ever name. 

Josh, Miles, and I, along with my mom, are in Italy right now celebrating, and I can sincerely say that I'm excited to see what this next decade of life brings!

goal setting for the new year

Happy New Year! I hope 2017 is treating you well so far. Obviously, Miles's year is off to a great start... we've had snow days, afternoons in the park, and he's officially decided that walking (errr... running) is a better mode of transit than crawling.

Last week, I finally got around to setting goals for 2017. Even though I know there's nothing special about a new year, it sure does feel like a fresh start. I always follow along with Lara Casey's Goal Setting series on her blog, but this year, I also got to use her PowerSheets! I'll be honest... I hadn't bought these in the past because I really didn't know how useful I'd find them. After all, I've been to the Making Things Happen conference, participated in a monthly accountability group for the past couple of years, and read the book, but these are such a powerful tool! After seeing how seamless they make this process and how helpful they are in gaining my focus, I'm definitely a believer. (They're sold out on their website, but you can still get to work on your goals using the blog series.)

I'm not gonna lie, this process takes work. Don't be fooled... this isn't just making arbitrary resolutions... it's about digging deep, evaluating, and setting meaningful goals with reasons behind them that motivate you to achieve them. After this process, I already feel a sense of balance restored that had been lacking for a very long time. (Let's be honest... I'm sure that sense will be upended at any moment, because I'm a parent, but for now, it's working.)

I'm not typically one to share my goals on the www, but for the sake of truly wanting to be held accountable (and maybe even inspiring you to join in), here we go...

1. Prioritize self-care. One big lesson for me this year, especially with a growing and increasingly active toddler, was that I have to start taking care of myself first. I was tending to everyone and everything else, and it made me constantly impatient and exhausted. There's a reason, on airplanes, that they tell you to put on your own oxygen mask before assisting others. If I prioritize me, I'm better for everyone around me.

2. Fuel my spirit daily. Even if you aren't religious, there's something about taking the time to just be quiet, meditate, and reflect that does the soul good. For me, this means spending time in prayer, scripture, and overall just filling my heart and mind with good things and relinquishing my own control. Man, do I feel free when I do this!

3. Love my tribe well. When you're busy with life, it's so easy to lose touch with those around you. This year, I want to be intentional about making my people (Josh and Miles, but also dear friends and family) know how loved and appreciated they are. I seriously don't know how I would have made it through this past year without the support of family and friends, and it's important that I take the time to encourage them, listen to them, and love them well.

4. Nurture my marriage. This is a big one for me. Having been together for over a decade before having Miles, Josh and I pretty much had things figured out. We rarely had petty arguments, could recognize when the other needed a break, and had plenty of time for each other. Living overseas and having a kid have been such grand adventures, but they've definitely taken their toll. With limited access (read: none) to child care, sleep deprivation, and the exhaustion that comes with an active toddler and a busy workload, we haven't made time to really connect with one another this past year. This is definitely worth the effort it takes to find our new groove as a family of three.

5. Be present and intentional in my time with Miles. I think part of it has to do with being so far away from all of our people, but I found myself slipping back into a constant reliance on my phone and social media. While there are times that I need to be on my computer while Miles is around, I want to make sure I'm taking time each day to be fully present with him and get to know who he is becoming. It can seem monotonous at times, but I know this time with him is so short, and soon enough, he won't want his mama's attention anymore. I need to soak it up!

6. Plan and forge a purposeful career path. With all of the changes that have happened in the past two years, it's clear to me that my business also needs to evolve. I want a career that serves my clients and my family well. I know this is not will not be a very easy or clearly defined process, but with our impending move back to North Carolina coming up, I want to figure out what work life looks like moving forward. I look forward to exploring this more!

My word for this year is NURTURE. Throughout this whole process, the theme that kept reappearing was the idea of nurturing. According to Dictionary.com, this means "to support and encourage, as during the period of training or development; foster." I can think of no better wish for the year ahead than to care for myself, my family, and those I love in a way that both supports and encourages.

Cheers to a new year, friends!

So tell me, are you setting goals for the year ahead? If so, what are some of your big ones? I want to know!